There's quite a few factors to keep your mind on when performing the act of a Blow Job on your man or any man in general. Just know that every guy is different and all men have different levels of sensitivity. It may take more work to get one guy off and it may take no more than a few minutes to get another guy off. It all depends how much BJ's they are receiving on their end as well which will make your job harder or easier. Men love blow jobs but kind of won't want it if you aren't that great at it. Here are a few tips that I use.
Alright, you're ready to do this so get in that good mind set. You may have heard this already but enthusiasm is the key here. It will get him going. You know kind of like how women overreact in porn. It's what he expects now so you will have to want it. Be dramatic even if it's cheesy. He'll like it.
Eyes are another important factor. Look up at him every once in a while. When you look up at him you are giving him the point of view he always sees in porn. Guys love it. You don't have to stare into his soul but just give him a little look here and there.
Cleavage is King! Whether you want to bare them all or give him a sweet little peak it's what he wants to see. Giving a blow job with a full cover up is fine but it will just get him more excited to see your breasts. Grab your boobs and make sure he can see. He will think its hot that you are playing with yourself at the same time or he may want to grab for himself.
Another thing I like to make sure is that my lips aren't dry. I always try to apply some lip balm real quick before I know I am going to perform. Also, you might want to make sure your breath is fresh for the occasion. Saliva is going to get everywhere if you're doing it right and nothing is worse than lapping up your own dirty mouth. Yuck!
Ready to start? Now you can either start one of two ways. You can lightly lube up his penis and sensually stroke him or you can use your fingers to lightly touch him without. I personally like starting out with lube because it works well for me and my partner. I use Astroglide because it lasts forever and doesn't get sticky/tacky. It also doesn't smell or taste funny for when I am ready to service him.
Don't want to work with the lube? Start touching and caressing his penis and balls. Balls are important but you have to remember not to be too rough. Gauge his reactions to know whether he likes it or not. Some guys don't like getting their balls touched at all but I guarantee if you are doing it right he won't mind. Stroke the spot between his balls and anus which is his prostate. I call it a peanut. I just take my pointer finger and rub on it while stroking his penis. It works great! Be careful with your nails if they are long. You may want to skip it all together if you have long nails.
This next thing is a little hard to explain but his sensitive spot is up top which is the head area. The spot facing you around the head area is the spot you want your tongue or thumb to rub up against. Mouth and hand use together is very optimal. Keep one hand gently touching his balls while the other hand is working his shaft. Try to avoid just plainly sucking without using your hand. It will feel good to him but if you want to keep the momentum that hand has to keep stroking at the same time. If you're in it to win it you will also lick and suckle on his balls. Try to get him to shave them though or you will have a mouth full of pubes which can be unpleasant. Don't bite him and don't suck too hard.
You want to keep good pressure around his penis. Slide your circled fingers up and down his penis while gently twisting your wrist. It's almost like the motion of unscrewing a bottle cap or a jar lid. Lick up and down his penis. Lick around it. You have to keep it different or he will get bored with one constant motion. His penis will get harder as he is close to blowing his load so that's when you might want to pick up the pace. Make sure to give him a good soundtrack. "Mmm, yes..you like that? " Men love to hear all of that stuff while you are performing.
Congrats, you did it! Trust me , if you follow all the tips he will cum quickly and be very satisfied. Hope this helps out and remember to take it slow in the beginning. Foreplay will heighten everything for him. Practice makes perfect and I totally recommend watching the pros do it. Go watch a BJ porn and get acquainted with it all. Your best bet is to mimic most of the stuff they do because it works.
